Ashu seems to have improved a lot in play school ,"he stops crying after 10 minutes Mam,now he got adjusted mam",this is how teacher says to me when i throw hell lot of questions on her.
sorry i cant help,i have to find out whether ashu eats or not?,whether he passes sussu in toilet or in his dresses?.I know he plays with other kids ,no need to ask that question,may be i can ask whether he troubles all the kids by displaying his affection with hugs and kissess,hhuuh,sure it will happen with ashu.
i have seen him lot many times without any inhibition he will get along with anykid he sees in the mall or restaurent ,may be he got this from his father and for sure not from me.
I accept i tend to be reserved intially ,but later if i feel comfortable and like their companionship i will be a good friend for sure.but his nana will easily get along with others.
now a days we used to ask him what he learnt from school,he tries to sing the BAA BAA Black sheep song,like BAA BAA BAA,BAA.(u know its too much to expect a 2 yr old baby to sing a rhymes )still its fun to listen to him and the gesture he makes while singing.
sometimes i think am i too crazy to send him to play school and is that bcoz we both are overenthu ,we push him like this???
but i have my justifications also,he needs some exposure and that doesnt comes by watching the cartoon channel all the time or any mega serials my maid watches when we are not around.
ofcourse maid cant communicate in english all the time and we expect rather,but we can arrange for something which gives him the little exposure in this little age ,Thanks to god ,we are affordable for that and we dont him to be super fast ,super intelligent,super and super in all.
but wants him to enjoy the little he is along with other kids and the basic and important thing he should and must develop is being INDEPENDENT.
I know ,its too much from him,As mad as a hatter ,but a little effort from the independent parents.
we (myself and hubby) dont depend on any body as such in our life so far,in all sort of thing we do,its bcoz of my husband i have learnt how to be independent,i can say iam still in the learning process only,he has fine tuned me ,he has refined me ,tries to bring the best out of me, a multitude of transformations has come into me thru him. Gods gift to me and touch wood iam very proud of myself what iam now.
and its one more feather in his cap
Subscribe to:
Post Comments (Atom)
No comments:
Post a Comment