Wednesday, December 5, 2007

Happy Birthday NANA


This wish is for my nana and not ashus nana.Tomorrow is my fathers birth day and ashus birthday is very close to his birthday and i wish ashu should also be similar to my nana in character and behaviour wise.even my hubby agrees for that.
No exaggeration ,he is a great father and Iam blessed to have him as my father .

He is a man of principles and moral values and have never seen him compromising in the values of life.
He is a busy bee and you cant see him taking a short nap even on sunday after noon for more than half an hour.
He keeps himself enaged busy for the entire day and active participant of the social activities,whether its local temple committe or the Resident assocation.

I have never seen him shouting at people,even when he is provoked he is matured enough to handle things .I have never seen him being tensed the patience he has cant be described in words. my nana never spent money on buying expensive things for him,some times he ignores to buy the most necessary things for him,he feels happy by giving the same to us.

Being a single bread winner of the family ,he gave me and my sis. an excellent education with all comforts.Its all my father and mothers hardwork ,what iam now.


whether its diwali ,my birthday ashus or hubby birthday he never missed to buy dresses and it will be given to us whenever he meets us.

before my marriage for every festival he will get me and my sis. a minimum of 3 dresses ,but he never think of buying a shirt for him.That age we didnt realise his sacrifice ,but now when i think of that ,i wonder ,such a great father i have ,iam the most fortunate person.Touch wood.now the same goes with my hubby ,even he wont spend money for his luxury whether its before marriage or after our marriage.

but now iam pushing him to buy atleast things which are required ,not for luxury ,but for necessity.

so far my nana was thinking abt us ,now his whole concebtration is towards his little grandson.
even we forgot that tomorrow is ashus nakshatra birthday ,my father has arranged for a homamm in ashus name in a temple in chennai.my mom says happily that they were planning to visit the temple at tomorrow 6.00am.i know that palavanthangal temple is quite far for them to reach at this 58 years in this cold weather.
But still they want to do that for their grand son.so the sacrifice still continues.

even my parents opted to bring up aswath in chennai,but we said NO,bcoz its our responsibility and we dont want to trouble our parents in this old age.we dont want to do kudarai savari (escaping from responsibilites)on them .

I dont know how in which way i will repay the things they did or still doing for us.
Only thing i can do God "Please bless my parents with good health and happiness"
They neither need any money nor interested in material wealth ,they have a calm ,peace-ful life and pray god to give the same for the entire life,as they deserve it.

Being away from my parents ,I would have a sense of satisfaction , if my parents were really happy,it doesnt matter if i stay with them in the same house or at miles away from them.

"WISH U A VERY HAPPY BIRTHDAY NANA"

ps:i dont think my father will read this blog ,but i would always pray god for my parents health and peaceful life.and wish kadavul (God)will grant the same bocz they are GREAT PARENTS and GREAT HUMAN BEINGS AS WELL.

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