ashu on 27 months and dinner at home

aswath krishna is called as ashu/athu at home as a nick name ,but when i registered his name a krishna in the preview class ,he did nt agree to call him as krishna,he said in loud voice "heyyyyyyy no noo athu""

i was really shocked for a moment and then whispered to him athu dont say heyyy in that tone ,he nodded his head ,in the way of yes ,but still opposed throught out the entire session when the miss called him as krishna.two time he said DOO KAA to her ,thank god she didnt understand what doo kaa means.

ashu is showing signs of growing these days and i have clicked those moments ,when he wore his trouser all alone by himself ,with out calling me.he wears his shoes with out socks.
Today iam really wondered and felt proud for a second when he passed sussu all alone with out calling me .mostly he would be wearing diapers when we go out .These days i have started training him how to pass sussu in the toilet.
today he followed all the steps i have told ,i hided myself and surprised.

first he removed ,his trousers,climbed with the help of a handle,passed sussu,turned towards the wash basin washed his hands,but didnt come out for 3-5 minutes,still washing......then i called him ashu what r u doing ,then he came out and wore his trousers all by himself.

when some one asks him to tell abcd he will say a,b,r,double u,thats it.finished .

when me and huddy have dinner ,he will come and sit with us and with little rice in his plate till we finish our food,if one of us finished and move for washing ,he will follow exactly what we do ,like throwing the waste in the plate to bin and keeping the plates near dish washer.

where ever we go and come back ,as soon as we enter the home he will keep his shoes inside the shoe rack with the socks inside and keeps his pram near the store room.
There are few days when i asked him to keep my shoes also inside the rack.when i told this to my mom ,

she said to me "u and ur sister should try to learn from him" :-)

when i get angry some times i will raise my hands on him,some times i will shout at him.so one fine day i did a mistake of saying a tamil word "mogara....",dont want to say the full word atleat here.

now a days if i scold him ,he in turn started saying "katta",with full anger in his face he is saying "amma katta",when i told this to hubby ,obviously u know who got the scoldings.

so im in the process of stop using that word ....

hope it happens????


when i start saying about ashu ,i totally forgot everything,for the past 10 days iam planning to write about the dinner we hosted for hubbys office colleagues,but never had an opportunity to write abut it.

yes this is the first time i preapred food for 10 + 2 people,with me and hubby.
i was really worried whether every thing will come out well or not.
In bangalore i have maids to help me and we have hosted several dinners ,so i dont have any completed pressure on me.

but here though this is the first time and i felt like i should be able to do that.
a day before i have grinded the idli batter ,and the menu is typical south indian type,"IDLI,SAMBAR,PONGAL,CHUTNEY,CHICKEN CURRY ,rava pottu AND GULAB JAMMOONS"

Special Thanks to Shruti and hari for the excellent gulab jammons .shruti prepared gulab jamoons from her home and helped me a lot by coming early to our home.

every bdy said the food was good ,i felt little bad when there was a shortage for idli and sambar at the end ,i should have preapared more,but hubby, shruti and hari convinced me by saying it happens ,when the food is good....

okie let me take a oath that i will blog a lot in the coming days